When time is running out without being seen, or time cases to exist and u don’t care about it – it can mean you just experienced FLOW in your life.
What does that mean exactly ?
Its mean that you’re getting lost in your task, 100%, you are missing the rest of the world, nothing else matters it’s kind of free movement.
Flow gives you a lot of good and positive energy and you become more aroused, in this case you’ just can forget that you were tired, powerless etcetra.
But before that you need to learn how to leave your worries behind you.
Very often flow is catching sports people during their training or competition, the same with passion and people who like their jobs. Mind you it works with enthusiasm at full speed, though this is more efficient/ productive plus we can really enjoy that.
You can get flow even during cleaning, I experienced it not once, add good music and headphones, I could do that all day when I have a vein.
Sex is also a very good example, In this case people literally can lose themselves during it, they can just focus on the pure pleasure , and becoming a sex God and sex Goddess , the only thing that matters is the right here and now.
If you have different opinion, just go right now, and fuck with your partner – I guarantee you, you will agree with me, if not, it will mean your partner is not good enough in bed for you, or there is no chemistry between you two.
You can also experience flow, during an interesting conversation with someone, which has happened to me several times. Once upon a time I went out with a guy and we spent 5 or 6 hours sipping wine, and talking about life, I didn’t notice when people came in and out of te bar, I totally forgot about my phone, and the next day I realized I felt my ass because of the uncomfortable chair in the restaurant lol
Flow for me is like feeling relaxed, happy, excited, feeling enthusiastic, having energy without thinking what is going on around me.
Now, when I look back, I’ve just realized how many opportunities I’ve wasted, I’ve had my proverbial brakes on too strong, but now I know, sometimes we should loosen up, because the real emotions and fun begin when we are able to add some gas, then we can have some sort of spontaneous experience, we are more open to exploring the world, and we can meet interesting people.
I remember when I was 19, I went with my friends to my new student flat in Poznań which was really sleazy. When we arrived at the train station, we looked at the train timetable and among others we drew our attention to the train to Kołobrzeg ( Polish sea ), but the Party in Poznań was our priority, so we picked the club at the center, we had a lot of fun and then went back to the ugly flat, and then we reminded ourselves about the Polish sea, so we took what we had (not much ) and some weird blankets from the flat and we went caught the train to Kołobrzeg. eventually when we got there we put our blankets on the sand and made some cozy place for us. When we arrived there was some old lady at the station with a placard saying “rooms available” so we went with her, and we had a really great time on the beach. For some people this may not be a big deal, but I had really good memories of those days, because we just went with the flow, having a spontaneous adventure.
And I still want to catch a train or plane or go on a walk somewhere, anywhere where my hear desires, not thinking of where I’m going. I hope it’s gonna be sooner rather than later, but I will let you know about it 😉
Why is it so exciting and beautiful?
At times like these, you can focus on the present, without making any scenario in your head, because you can’t control anything, and that’s the magic of it 😀